Grey Matters!

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Ever since I’ve tried to take my own decisions, make my own choices and take my own chances, I’ve looked for either left or right or black or white. School probably taught us that things were either right or wrong and there was no midway that considered anything partially correct and partially incorrect.

As we grew up the importance of being completely right almost diminished because rationality and a choice of opinions always differed. Looking in the mirror at myself today I can’t say I’m correct but I can say I’m different. Because, there’s never just a yes or a no. In certain circumstances there might be a maybe as well. There might be a path not taken, there might be an answer that tells I’m limitless and there might be a mixture of black and white both.

At times people consider this as arrogance or ego because they feel that none of today’s generation wants to follow the path they led. But, it’s not like that, the truth is we’re all on a journey to find our own path because ultimately every destination has more than one route.

It’s whimsical how all of us are in search for the right grey, while our parents, teachers and elders are trying to look for their child who knew just the right black or white.

It’s never necessary to prove anybody wrong but one thing that’s really vital is that grey matters too. 🙂

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Love!

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               For some people just make your life seem so special. I feel at times that love is such an overrated feeling, why can’t it be termed just as special as other feelings? Or why can’t other feelings be termed as important as love? There is actually a very important reason behind this. A reason that justifies why love is always perceived as a more vital feeling, a more vital emotion.

Most of our joy, our sorrow, our satisfaction or our misery comes from one simple emotion called, love. Not just happiness and sadness but regret, depression or gratitude and excitement too come into us because we love. The feeling of making our parents proud gives birth to passion for excellence. The feeling of doing something great for our kids brings forth the feeling of being persistent with great courage.

It’s confusing at times to understand the things that love can do. It’s difficult to understand whether what love is doing to us is good or bad. It’s crazy how we can’t perceive where love leads us, how it makes us who we are, how it creates almost everything we do.

So one thing that really makes sense is that, if it’s love that plays a vital role in our lives, let’s not fail to express it. 🙂

Writer’s Block!

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               What’s a “Writer’s Block” really? The incapability of a writer to write new creative content? Or the condition of being unable to think? Or both, the condition of being unable to think of original creative content?

It’s not just about writers that I’m worried today. I want to understand of this “BLOCK” generally. I wish to understand what’s this block that, just came into our minds without permission and it still doesn’t regret being there? How does it exist being there even after we’ve perceived it’s there? Why can’t we really do anything about it?

After a lot of contemplating I found a solution. I mean there can be many but this one was the most effective for me. What do you do when you’re house is a mess? Or let’s be more specific. Your desk is a mess?

At times, if we’ve got a lot of work to do, we let the clutter remain to one side and just start working on something more important. Right? But, most of the times, it doesn’t work for me, I can’t get to work if my desk is a mess and I won’t even get sleep until I’ve cleared it.

Similar, is the case of our brains. Clutter, makes us cranky at first, but as soon as it increases it turns into a block that we cannot put away so easily. Creative thoughts and ideas generally come to those mind cells that are liberated to think out of the box, to think freely and to think productively. But when our minds are too worked up, anything creative too can turn into a big block of confusion and frustration.

So, here’s the deal! Clear the mess, get some space and let your mind free of a block that has basically no right to own any kind of room in there. 🙂

10 Years!

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A decade always has too many strings attached. Whether it’s work, age or relationship. In every aspect of life the ten years time span plays a very important role. For some, ten years are the time span for a short term goal and for some they’re a lifetime. And some people don’t even have the courage to say, that the next day could be theirs. Today, someone asked me, “Where you’d like to be in TEN YEARS?”

An extremely alarming question, I must say. But at the same time, it seemed extremely significant too. They always say, make plans and have goals. I have always believed that plans don’t work. But on the other hand, in all these years, I’ve also learned that even if nothing in this whole wide world works in your favor, always have hope. So technically, they’re right. Make plans, work accordingly have hope and fulfill your goals and if it doesn’t work for you, make another plan and repeat.

In these ten years, things might entirely change in my life. Ten years down this lifeline, I’d be in my thirties, hopefully with a decent identity capital, a family to love, a home to return to and definitely with enough strength and courage to earn a livelihood.

Yes, most people might say that, that one is a highly indefinite plan but if my plan possesses everything responsible for my happiness, why not? Why can’t I have a vague idea of what my life will look like ten years from now if I can believe I’ll be happy?

That’s my idea, to find my happiness wherever I go and no matter how long it takes for me to get there. What’s your plan? Where would you like to be 10 Years? 🙂

428 New Notifications!

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               It’s been a long time now since I’ve been thinking about all my social media networks. I’ve been thinking about what my social media profile really does? Can I connect better with my people offline? Can I be more productive if I disconnect myself? Would I be updated? Would I be successful if I’m not a regular social media user?

Even though these thoughts didn’t come to me naturally they created a great impact on my thinking pattern. I’ve always been an avid social media user and the number friends on my Facebook profile or followers on my Instagram profile did matter a lot. But today, as I look back to those days when Facebook was merely a new website and we all created registered accounts to learn something new, I can see how the whole motive has changed and that too for nothing better.

This one’s not just about Facebook or Twitter or Instagram, it’s generally about how Social Media has taken up our valuable mind space and personal space and also, how it affects us in various aspects of our lives. Even as I write this article, I can imagine most of you not agreeing with my ideas and you might have important, completely sensible reasons of disagreement towards my thinking. But on an individuals’ level I feel completely satisfied to share my thoughts with people around, through a book rather than a text message.

In today’s world it can be immensely difficult to even try to imagine a life deprived of social media. But trying to come out from that viscous large clique and be completely outgoing, offline and oneself can truly be a beginning of some beautiful things in life.

Yes, it might take time. I believe all tough things do! But we might find better ways to connect, better entertainment routes, stronger bonds and many more social circles.

We might find a better way to live life. 🙂

Commitments!

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               In today’s lives, where we’ve all got immense work load and a list of tasks hanging around for the day, it’s difficult to commit for our own betterment. Difficult to take even the smallest steps in the direction of our own growth. And thus, in such times, it becomes nearly impossible to stick to our own commitments.

To be dedicated enough even after the exuberance we committed for a goal in has left us, is a tough task. And taking the decision to be dedicated is itself a battle. But we all know and we all understand that commitment is really important not just as the source of guarantee for others but for ourselves too. Because either a task is done or not done there is no in-between and we all clearly understand that. Thus, it becomes a great deal when it’s said and done or done and called out for.

It feels such a joy for me when I can proudly showcase my work and have the gratitude for having done it within time. It’s not only joyous, I get a great amount of time for myself later too, to do more things that make me happy and make me successful at the end of the day. It’s definitely a proud moment and then one can monkey around the way one likes too. 😛

Be committed and make sure you’re having fun later on! 🙂

Last Word!

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               I always stumble upon the thought that, if today were my last day, have I lived it just fine? And the conclusion I always reach to for my query, is a “No”! It’s difficult to live life thinking of death. But yet life is definitely a blessing. A blessing, I’ve always taken for granted. A blessing that I’ve cursed at times too. But I’ve never felt the right gratitude I should feel for the life I live each and every second.

Isn’t it such a wonderful thing to wake up every morning and have another twenty-four hours of plain awesomeness? Of every second to live upto. So what if there are chores to do? Or if there are duties to fulfill. Or if there are tough payments to make? Can’t we do every little thing wholeheartedly? Every word we speak or every step we take? Can’t we be happy about the choices we make? Can’t we be delighted about the decisions we take today? Or contented about the mistakes we make today?

For one day, might have no tomorrow. One day, I might have no time to speak a word or take a step. And that day might have no great last word from me too. None of us will be able to do anything then. So the place is here and the time we have is now and trust me it will never be enough.

So don’t count your footsteps but mark them. Don’t save yours words, rather narrate your emotions. Wake up, dance to the clock, love unconditionally, live happily and make every move your best move so that there are no regrets and you will always have an amazing beginning, a wonderful journey as well as a marvellous ending. 🙂