Ever since I’ve tried to take my own decisions, make my own choices and take my own chances, I’ve looked for either left or right or black or white. School probably taught us that things were either right or wrong and there was no midway that considered anything partially correct and partially incorrect.
As we grew up the importance of being completely right almost diminished because rationality and a choice of opinions always differed. Looking in the mirror at myself today I can’t say I’m correct but I can say I’m different. Because, there’s never just a yes or a no. In certain circumstances there might be a maybe as well. There might be a path not taken, there might be an answer that tells I’m limitless and there might be a mixture of black and white both.
At times people consider this as arrogance or ego because they feel that none of today’s generation wants to follow the path they led. But, it’s not like that, the truth is we’re all on a journey to find our own path because ultimately every destination has more than one route.
It’s whimsical how all of us are in search for the right grey, while our parents, teachers and elders are trying to look for their child who knew just the right black or white.
It’s never necessary to prove anybody wrong but one thing that’s really vital is that grey matters too. 🙂
For some people just make your life seem so special. I feel at times that love is such an overrated feeling, why can’t it be termed just as special as other feelings? Or why can’t other feelings be termed as important as love? There is actually a very important reason behind this. A reason that justifies why love is always perceived as a more vital feeling, a more vital emotion.
Most of our joy, our sorrow, our satisfaction or our misery comes from one simple emotion called, love. Not just happiness and sadness but regret, depression or gratitude and excitement too come into us because we love. The feeling of making our parents proud gives birth to passion for excellence. The feeling of doing something great for our kids brings forth the feeling of being persistent with great courage.
It’s confusing at times to understand the things that love can do. It’s difficult to understand whether what love is doing to us is good or bad. It’s crazy how we can’t perceive where love leads us, how it makes us who we are, how it creates almost everything we do.
So one thing that really makes sense is that, if it’s love that plays a vital role in our lives, let’s not fail to express it. 🙂
Away from all the stereotyping, discrimination, equality, fundamental rights and other important issues. Let’s just talk about us. The better halves of the world I mean. Just kidding! 😛
This is not just for men to read. Remember lying on mom’s lap for even a few seconds and how her hands can’t resist playing with your hair and skin? The way this alluring darling can’t help but care for us? She’s so affectionate that I sometimes start to think how wonderful a wife dad’s got. She’s so caring that I wonder if I’ll ever be able to become a mom like her.
Coming to wives or women as partners, especially this era when she’s competitive but in such beautiful ways that you tend to love her more, don’t you? I won’t say she gives up on a lot, but she does think mostly just about you. You’re her one and only and she loves you in the most deepest ways.
And do you remember that little girl who had a crush on you ever since you were born. Whether girls or boys, everyone loves sisters. They’re so irritating and annoying that you can’t help but noticing them being in your lives. But at the same time, you got any difficulty little or elder one, it’ll soon be hers. Hell yeah!
We can’t forget daughters today they’re a father’s piece of heart and a mother’s little part itself. No matter how old they get they’ll always be young for mom and dad. These daughters make the most difference actually by changing on each step of their lives. As young riling creatures to adult caring moms. I can’t thank them enough for being themselves.
These women might not be the best but they’re mostly a great deal to the world. They might not be equal or stronger but they’re quite everything anyone would want in their lives. I know I’ve missed quite many of them but let’s love them and respect them.
Happy Women’s Day to all the beautiful women of the whole wide world! We love you Ladies! 🙂
Do you feel sad about missing something important? Missing someone special? Or even missing a show you like to watch and you follow? Well, I quite do and I hate missing or waiting. But at times, you can’t be everywhere or do everything, right? That’s where prioritizing comes in and one feels helpless but he or she has to choose.
These I feel are the most difficult choices of my life. Especially, when I choose work over people and then miss them. When I choose assignments over family get togethers and miss all the love and fun. Fortunate or not we have to make these decisions and we tend to go into the direction for ourselves. Right? Wrong, I’d say!
I know what’s important for us, most people won’t understand. Yet, what is that thing we are quite waiting for? Would I miss work if I’m with people who love me? I would just miss my salaries. And family will stay by my side whether I have the money or not.
So consider yourself in this choice now. Think again before taking the decision. Because everything can come again, except the life we’re living and the time that’s passing. Create memories, hold blessings and have stories to tell your kids. Money can definitely buy a lot but happiness. 🙂
No matter how many words, phrases or stories are written for moms, there’ll always be a mystery about their character. I think even though we don’t give our parents as much love or respect as we feel for them we always have it in us. As much love and gratitude they have for us.
Somewhere yes, they’ve taken immense burden and pain for us and unfortunately we can’t return it to them, we can only do it with our kids or the generation to come. However it’s difficult to explain it to them, but we truly do love them the most, no matter how many relationships we have or people we fall for or friends we make. They’ll always be the foremost right?
Anyway, my story wasn’t about the mutual feeling that my parents and I have. It was about this trip that my mom and dad are starting tomorrow and since the very beginning of getting this news of a ten day trip my mom has been frantically running around to keep everything in place for us while she isn’t home.
It’s not like we’ll be alone for the first time or we can’t help ourselves well. But her concern for us has had absolutely no boundaries. While we had our duties in place for them, the bookings, confirmations, luggage, other voyage related activities, her preparation would never stop.
I knew she would be thinking about us more than her trip but I never imagined it to that extent. So much uncertainty about this behavior of my mom turned into a wonderful emotional baggage for me. Trust me, their trip starts tomorrow and I’m already missing her. Love you Ma! Yes, dad has a lesser importance in this story but, I love you dad and today it’s just mom and me (hope you understand 😛 ).
Happy Journey both you Sweetest Hearts. Wish you a joyous and safe trip! 🙂